You want to be respected by everyone you meet, but not sure how this whole thing works. Well, it is no secret that we all crave for respect from others in all social places. It doesn’t matter whatever our profession be, but it will ease things up when other respect our interests and values. If there could be one simple tip to gain everyone respect then it is to think about others and focus less about ourselves.
When we think and help about what others would require then by nature all our expectations gets fulfilled. Here are few ways in which you can gain respect of everyone you come across. We must not forget that after all, birth is given to us by someone else, education is given to us by someone else and the list goes on.
STOP BEING TOO NICE
When we understand others thoughts and feelings then we get connected emotionally, which lets them to respect our emotions as well. But, it is need you to be too nice to people by listening to each and every feelings of them. Instead you must distinguish kindness from empathy, trying to make everyone happy won’t get you very far. When you hold a common point between yourself and your colleagues in your workplace then they may genuinely respect you.
ADD REAL VALUE
Imagine you are part of a community, a company, or a group of friends or a team then in order to gain others respect you may figure out by starting to add real value to your circle. Whenever something is coming up then there will be people who will point out the problems in order to get them fixed. How about you planning individually or collectively as a team working on to bring direct solutions to report to respective authority and bring solutions to it. Here instead of pointing out, you have involved yourself and added real value to bring a solution. This is an uncommon trait which will gain everyone’s respect in no time. Don’t wait for someone else to solve the problem rather initiate yourself to work along with everyone else to bring the solutions. Leadership is always respected as a leader is someone who doesn’t wait for others command rather takes command when a problem arise. To know more about leadership, you may start with reading Robin Sharma’s The Leader Who Had No Title.
SPEAK UP WHEN ANYONE IS MISTREATED
This is a social trait which most of us failing to act on it at all. In our fast paced lifestyle, we rarely spend time for even ourselves then how can we think about others problems? One might ask. It all comes down to ethics and values, when you see someone is being mistreated or cheated by anyone on the road then it is our duty to raise voice against them. It is just about the first voice then automatically many other shy voices will join along for sure.
One does not always need to wear a neat clothes and carry a charisma to gain others respect rather we can spend little time for others which will emotionally let them love us back. When you really look for others respect then by anyhow you are going to respect others unconditionally. Give respect and take respect.